Sunday, May 29, 2011

Sunday Smiles from Mother’s Day

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Yes, I know that Mother’s Day was 3 weeks ago.

I know that I should have posted this long ago..but…

Better Late Than Never…

That is my motto these days…. so bear with me. These memories are too precious for me not to document them. There are more than 6 but I couldn’t leave any of them out.

However, before I get started l want to tell you that Holly is having a give-away for her 1000 blog post. Click HERE if you want to enter.

Now... on with my belated Mother's Day smiles....

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In spite of me spending much of the day in bed, I was happy to be out of the hospital and back in my own home for Mother’s Day …. surrounded by …. loved ones…. flowers…. gifts…. and good food.

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It really is a miracle that John and I both survived that awful accident. At first I thought I had lost him. It was the worst experience of my life… and then, here I was 6 weeks later getting Mother’s day flowers from him. What a blessing… my heart overflows with thankfulness and smiles.

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The previous day, ProFlowers had delivered beautiful roses from Erin and Patrick and Lynell and Dathan. (I may be a tiny bit biased… but I think my precious girls and grand-girls are the most beautiful flowers in my life’s garden.)

The Young Women from our ward, Marie and Sil also sent me flowers. My family room looked like a flower shop. Smile… Smile….

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I think my Son and grandsons are beautiful too… but since they are men I guess I’m suppose to say handsome even though they are gorgeous. David gave me his gift 3 days earlier when I flew home from Utah. John carried it on the plane without even 1 complaint. Smile… Smile.




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Ernie loaded up his smoker and all the supplies for dinner and brought them to our house since I could not travel to their home. All of his efforts made me smile.





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Lynell and Johnny drove out from Long Beach where Johnny had been competing in the National Gymnastic Meet the past few days. I was thrilled to get to spend a few hours with them before they had to drive to LA to catch their flight home.





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Johnny was pooped exhausted after his week of competing…. but we were all thrilled that all of his years of hard work had paid off and out of the 1000s of boys who competed this year, he was one of the 14 who made the National USA team.

That made us all smile.

Here he is showing me the National Team rules book he got.

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I was sorry that sweet Lynell had to hurry off to the airport before she got any Mother’s Day dinner but we all appreciated her making the effort to drive out so she and Johnny could spend some time with us… and we were glad that she could get home to her own family just in time to get a call from her Justin who is serving on an LDS mission in Guatemala for 2 years. Smile… Smile

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(Notice the basket full of supplies and all the food they brought from home to make dinner for us. What a big job for them.)

While Mindy and Ernie worked making dinner…






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…E.J. played piano and Claire sang for me. We had not been able to attend the talent show they were in the day before. It is the first time we’ve ever missed their talent show. That made me sad but having my own special concert made me smile.





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Ernie’s smoker produced the best chicken ever made. We were all smiling when our delicious dinner was ready.

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I got the invalid treatment royal treatment and was served dinner in bed. Just when I thought all the festivities were over I was presented with one last gift… more charms for my Brighton bracelet. Smile… smile


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What a wonderful day!

However, even though the flowers, gifts, phone calls and dinner were very nice and very much appreciated….. they were not the best part of Mother’s Day.

The best part of Mother’s Day is having a precious family…. every one of them…. who love the Lord and love me, as I love them.

I have dear friends who do not have this blessing in their lives. My heart goes out to them. I am so sorry. I do not take my loving family for granted. I realize it is my life’s greatest blessing… and greatest joy. I thank God for them every day…. and I am thankful I am still here with them.

A few weeks ago, after the accident, I prayed that God would call me home to release me from pain I was experiencing. I felt it was more than I could bear for even one more minute….. then I would think of my family. I thought about how sad they would be without me. I thought about how sad I would be to leave them.

I am glad that God didn’t listen to my pleas to bring me back to my heavenly home. Instead, He gave me the strength to go on. He knew my family still needs me and even though I feel rather worthless just lying in bed waiting for these darn ribs to get better, I know that eventually they will heal. One day I will be able to be of service to my family and friends again. I am thankful for that.

I am thankful for you readers too. I know that this is a very long post. Thank you for letting me express these heartfelt feelings.

I hope that each of you have a great week that is full of smiles.

17 comments:

Joy/The Olde Farmhouse said...

Hi Lura: Another absolutely wonderful post. And, yes, I loved each part! Thank you for sharing your awesome family with us. Makes me a little sad I have only a small family 8-( but on the other hand, it makes me happy to know I am going to see them starting on Wednesday as I am starting on the trip that includes first granddaughter's wedding on the 11th. 8-) I will try to keep up with you if their computers are in working order. Keep on with your wonderful attitude and pretty soon you will be as busy as ever! Ribs do heal! Lots of love and caring to you. {{Hugs}} Joy

Linda - Behind My Red Door said...

Lura, you are so right - each and every member of your family is beautiful on the outside - and most especially on the inside. I know this has been a hard journey but I am glad you have so many reasons to smile while you take this long journey to healing. Thinking of you and praying for you every day! Warm hugs!!

hoLLy said...

i'm glad our Heavenly Father gave you the strength to go on...what would the world be like without you lura here with us?! i'm so glad you had such a wonderful mother's day. you deserved the royal treatment:) you are so blessed with such an amazing family! prayers and love each and every day that you recover quicker than expected. hugs!!

Jan's Blog said...

There's a song I love called, "Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers." I'm so glad God didn't answer your prayer to be taken to your heavenly home. And I'm so glad that Heavenly Father (and Kris) brought us together to be members of a
'friend family'. I love being a member of this family, and find my greatest joy in it. I include my darling Janelle in this family. She goes beyond 'blood' and is truly my friend, and of like mind and spirit to the extent that her limited upbringing allow. The glow inside you and Kris is in my Janelle, and I'm thrilled to see her transformation unfold. I love you Lura. I'm so glad we are 'family'!

Sybil said...

Oh Lura, I have just written to Marie about you as I hadn't seen anything from you and I was a bit concerned. and now here you are with such a wonderful long newsy blog. what a great Mothers Day you sure had. I so agree with you about family we treasure each and every one of them. You nay not remember but this last year both my dear Sister and BIL have left me and almost 3 years agi my best beloved Goddaughter was taken so my little family is decreasing and it is friends like you and many other bloggers that in a funny sort of way become an extended family..and I thank our Lord daily for you all..
Keep smiling
my love. Sybil xx
Love to John xx

Marie Rayner said...

I'm another one of your many friends that is grateful that Heavenly Father didn't answer your pleas to bring you home. I am not ready to lose you yet!! (I know selfish me!) It was so nice to see all these pictures. You are so very blessed to have such a loving and caring family and also to know and appreciate what you have. So many take it for granted. I have so enjoyed all the photos. It looks like Ernie has lost weight? It was so nice to speak with you yesterday on the telephone. I have not called, mostly because the time difference is so great and I don't want to wake you up when you are resting. It was good to hear your voice and share some love with each other. I am so blessed to be able to call you sister/friend. You are a treasure to me. Love you much. xxoo

Kris said...

Your Sunday Smiles makes me smile. It is wonderful to have been friends with you so long that I know your family and enjoy seeing their photos because I love them too.

You deserve the Royal Treatment...even if sometimes it means being in bed.
It was astonishing to see how much you were able to do Saturday. Were you exhausted after Jan and I left? The patio looked so pretty.

Lynell said...

Love you Mom! We had such a wonderful visit. I wish it could have been longer. You look so beautiful in the pictures. I am so lucky to have you as a mom. XXXOOO Lynell

Cathyjo said...

Dear Lura, I'm so glad your sill with us and Heavenly Father left you here with us.I know you have a lond road ahead but I know that Heavenly Father will be right be side you all the way.Sorry but I do get concerned when I don't hear from you in a few days. And I know it's hard for you to keep up with your blog.Thank You so much for doing so.And for loving us.((HUGS))

StitchinByTheLake said...

Lura you have a special family indeed and it shows by how much they have done to spend time with you. I know how much you do for them; the wonderful example of Christian living that you have set them for so many years has been manifested in their lives. I'm so glad you had a wonderful day. blessings, marlene

Gloria Baker said...

Hi dear Lura Im glad to heard from you, hope you are better dear, remember dau by day, you look awesome and the pictures are really nice, you make me smile with your smiles, send you huggs and kisses, gloria

bettyj said...

Lura Thank you for sharing your wonderful day! I know your family felt this was a very special Mothers Day just having you here. Isn't wonderful that God doesn't always listen to us?
Continue healing, prayers, betty

Anonymous said...

Thanks for another wonderful inspiring post! I always love reading what you write, all the great things going on in your family and the insights of wisdom I still have yet to learn. I hope you are doing well in some nice warm weather over there! Lots of hugs from me!! :)

LeAnn said...

This was such a lovely post. Thanks you for sharing your sweet family and for the thoughts. I am so amazed by your positive attitude. I am so happy that I have found you. You are very inspiring. Praying for your recovery and it needs to be quick.
Blessings to you!

Great-Granny Grandma said...

So good to hear you are home, and getting stronger every day. You do have an awesome family, Lura, and I'm so glad you got to enjoy a very special Mother's Day with all of them. You are richly blessed.

The Barton's said...

I am so glad you had a wonderful Mother's Day. I hope that each day is bright and happy for you.

hoLLy said...

thanks for the contest shout out!

and head over to my blog right now for a surprise!!