Happy Father's DayMy father wasn't around when I was young. He left our family when I was 7 and I didn't see him again until I was a teenager. He died when I was 22. I am sorry that I did not have more of a relationship with him.... but then life is what it is.
My earthly father never got to know me very well or love me very much.However, I do have a Heavenly Father who knows me well and loves me.
I am thankful that I know this is true.
I want to share with you how I came to know this...beyond any doubt.
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As a child my mother taught me to pray. I attended church with her regularly and learned to respect and worship God and Jesus. I grew to love my Saviour. I felt great appreciation for his sacrifice and overwhelmed that He loves me enough to die for me.
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Somehow, while I worshipped God and prayed to Him, I did not feel like He was really my Father. Maybe it was because I didn't have a relationship with my earthly father it was hard to imagine me having a Heavenly Father.
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My mother died when I was 41. We were very close and her death came at a hard time in my life. The company my husband worked for had folded and John was out of work. I had to start working to help support our family. I was in my first year of teaching high school and my first year of working on my Master's degree. (I was required to go back to college in order to get my CA credential.) I was overwhelmed with working, being a student , a wife, a mother and taking care of my sick mother.
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My mother was very ill and lived with us at the time. In spite of her fragile health she was a great support to me. Her love and encouragement were a great source of strength to me.
And then she was gone. I held her in my arms as she drew her last breath and I kissed her goodbye.
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A few weeks later I decided that I should clean out her things and give them away.
As I knelled on the floor and opened one of her drawers the scent of her perfume hit me. As I looked at her things and saw notes written by her hand I was overcome with great grief.
I felt like I had the weight of the world on my shoulders.
I cried out "Mother, I miss you. I need you. If only I could talk with you I know you would help me and make me feel better."
So great was my grief that it seemed to push me to the floor and bare down on me.
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While I was in this state, sobbing, I began to feel warm.... like arms were wrapped around me.
I felt a calming peace surround me.
My heart began to pound and felt full of joy.
In my mind I heard these words...
"My dear daughter, your mother is gone, but I am here to help you.
She loves you but I love you even more.
She knows you well but I know you even better.
You can not talk with her for a season, but I am here and you can always talk to me.
I am always ready to listen and to help.
Come to me. I am your Heavenly Father. I wait with open arms."
These words were only in my mind but I heard them as clearly as I would have had they been spoken out loud.
At that moment I knew that God really was my father....
....My Father in Heaven...
and I was his daughter whom He knew and loved.
How wonderful it is to know that I really am a child of God....
...we are all children of loving Heavenly Father.
I am so thankful for that knowledge and testimony.
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I am also thankful for the wonderful men and fathers that I have in my life now.
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My John is a dear husband, father and grandfather.
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My son David and my 3 sons-in-law love their wives, their families, us and their Heavenly Father. They include us in their lives and welcome us in their homes. What a blessing that is for John and me.
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Today I am smiling as I think of them with thankfulness in my heart.
Today I am smiling as I think of them with thankfulness in my heart.
I think that the pictures I am posting today are self evident.
How wonderful to have these good men in my life.
He is a loving husband and father.
He is a great grampy
Just ask any of his 13 grandchildren
(well Evan may be too young to ask but the others will tell you.)
They all adore him

Dathan is a hard worker and a kind and tender soul.
We are so glad to have Dathan in our family.
What a sweet Grampy.
What a sweet dad.
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# 2 Dathan is my oldest daughter Lynell's husband.
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#3 is Ernie, our second daughter Mindy's husband.
Mindy and Ernie live close to us and include us in every
family activity and holiday. We also have dinner together every Sunday.
What a blessing it is for us to live close to this sweet family.
It took Erin 10 years to find her dear Patrick but he is worth the wait.
David is a great dad.
It is so much fun watching him singing and interacting with his children.
#3 is Ernie, our second daughter Mindy's husband.
family activity and holiday. We also have dinner together every Sunday.
Ernie is special to us.
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#4 is Patrick, our youngest daughter Erin's husband.
There is not a more loving and devoted couple to be found anywhere.
Patrick is thrilled to be a new father
He just can't get enough of his boy.
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#5 is our son David.
What a blessing it is to have a son like David.
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So on this Father's day I am thankful to know that
I have a Heavenly Father
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I have these 5 good men and fathers in my life.
Happy Father's Day to all of you good Father's.
May God Bless you all.
Have a great week. I hope you will have lots to smile about.
(((Hugs)))) Grammy Lura




13 comments:
beautiful post lura, just beautiful! so sorry you lost your parents so young:( that must have been so so difficult. thankfully we have the gospel and the love of our Heavenly Father to help us through our difficult times. you have 5 amazing men in your life. you are truly blessed. hope your father's day is a wonderful one with your sweet john!
What a beautiful testimony, and I just love this tribute to the men in your life. You are one very blessed lady!
what a nice post! You have good men in your life, but then, we reap what we sow. A loving wife will have a loving husband and loving children and in-laws!
Greetings to your dear Lura...all the way from Patagonia!
What a beautiful post. Your mother sounds like she was a wonderful lady.
And, how luck you are to have all of those amazing men in your life.
Lura, although I already knew some of these things, reading them here this morning touched my heart in a very beautiful way. Oh how I love you my sweet friend, and your tender heart. I am so happy that our Heavenly Father brought us back to each other here on earth. I just know we were wonderful friends in the pre-existance and now wonderful friends here and will always be so. I am so thankful for your testimony of our Heavenly Father. It helps to strengthen mine. I have not had the priveledge of meeting Ernie or David yet, but I have met Patrick and Dathan and I know them to be real gems. I love them dearly as well. I wish I could reach through the computer screen and give you a huge hug,but I expect you are sleeping right now, so maybe I will brush against you in your dreams and you will briefly think of this friend who loves you so from across the sea! XXXOOO Can't wait to talk to you again. I've some special news to share!
The men in your life are lucky to have you, as well. :) Happy Father's Day to them all!!! Thanks for sharing your story with us, it was very touching to read.
Wow...what you have written here is profound and powerful. I have, and have had my father my whole life, but for many of those years he was not welcome in my life, as he was the cause of some pain that forever altered my life. We have no reconciled and it is wonderful, but I can identify with your feeling of loss. I also failed to bond with my Heavenly Father because the very idea brought to mind my earthly father. My change was a very gradual one. But over time, and with trial and error, I came to know the love of my Heavenly Father, and that altered my life again. It's been an incredible journey, but I am basically at peace and can take whatever comes because I have my Father's love. I love that we have this in common! Blessings to you, and lots of hugs...Jan
What a sweet post! Heavenly Father's love for us is definately evident in our lives if we look around. You are a wonderful lady and yes, you are surrounded by some wonderful men!
Lura, this was a lovely post. All your men are lucky to have you in their lives. You and John are the strong beating heart of a big happy family and ong may it remain so.
love, Angie, xx
That brought tears to my eyes, but what a great reminder that I too always have a father even though mine is gone.
Your post about your experience when you found out that Heavenly Father is truly your father, it also brought tears to my eyes! I felt His spirit very strong as I read those words.
Your family is amazing Lura. Isn't it a wonderful gift. My happiest thing in my life, is having my step-daughters as my friends. They are all exceptional women. They all have wonderful families, and we all get along. I alwasys told myself, if I ever married again, I would never treat someone else's children like mine had been treated. For some reason my first husband choose cold, mean women. He has been married twice since our marriage, and he always seemed to pick the same kind of person. They did not accept my daughters, so the accumulation of all the hurt affected my oldest daughter the most. This was in additon to her mental illness thrown in there. The Good Lord does have a way of protecting us though. I know He watches over us every day.
Ned is a gift to me..and I thank God every day for him. He has made my life worthwhile. Your John looks so sweet !!!
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Lura this was a wonderful tribute to the men in your life. You are truly blessed with wonderful gifts from God in each one of them. blessings, marlene
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